Thesis: Communication is important. Letting the other person know your CONTEXT is a part of that. Scene: We’re walking the doggo, so I can’t step into the co-op with Steve. We’re all wearing masks, which as you know makes communication a little bit more fraught. "I’m going to grab some coffee - what can I get you?" "Kombucha." "Coffee?" "Kombucha." "Columbian?" "No, Kombucha, please." "WHAT? Cup of joe?" Bless his heart. He REALLY knows me. In 22 years of marriage I have given him no reason to think that I would prefer a non-coffee, non-booze beverage under any circumstance. I’m a complex person, and I reserve the right to change up my order on a hot day when something with a little pro-biotic tang sounds appetizing. But he was confused, which I get. I was working with an Invincible Oboist recently, reiterating that the METER must be clear when you perform. It’s remarkable how much of my energy as a listen...