Oboe, reeds, music. That’s my mantra as I leave home, for every gig, every time. I have to see or put my hands physically on each part of that equation before I pull out of my driveway. Occasionally, when I’ve neglected to hit my checklist, I’ve pulled over before getting on the expressway just to make perfectly sure. I don’t know how I happened to forget to check Saturday morning. We moved into our new house 10 days ago. I’ve been keeping a lot of details in my head, things like gas and internet appointments, address change forms, and exactly which box Zoe’s snow pants are in. Our first Musicians for Michiana concert is coming up in two weeks and my mind is full of rehearsals, newsletters, press releases, and programming insights. I was working on a scheduling email for my students. I had decided to leave extra early for my gig this morning to return some library books and check the mail at the old house. All of that left me not very foc...